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Introduction To A Broke-Ass Wedding: Matrimony On A Budget…

“Your wedding is in Vallejo, on a Sunday, […]

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Dispatches From The Road, Puerto Vallarta: Pinning On Tail At Ándale

[caption id="attachment_67697" align="aligncenter" width="550"] Let's just say, not "Mission" style.[/caption] From the minute I set foot in the Zona Romántica, I was directed by friends and strangers alike

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Harajuku Heartbreak: Notes and Observations on Traveling Through Japan

This photos sums up Japan rather well

My good friend Sato is a Japanese-American who now lives in Japan. A few  years

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10 Really Stupid Ways To Save Money.

Because, sometimes, stupid decisions and warped logic are the essence of thriftiness: 1) Go commando. Is giving up underwear going to save you on laundry bills? No. But if you

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My 13 Favorite Okcupid Messages

The online dating profile is gone. Sad. And not at all sad. But we had some good times, that profile and me. Or at least a hell of

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The Cheapest Dates in New York City

Let me begin by clarifying: when I say "cheap dates", I do not mean people. Any guy who clicked on this in hope of discovering a list of

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Reasons Why Your Tinder Profile is Horrible

I'm posting my profile to give you the option of making fun of me back.

If this is the first time you're hearing about

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Come Dunk City Officials For Dollars at the 40th Annual Castro Street Fair

  Once a year, as the day’s light develops its golden October hue, Castro Street takes on a look akin of yesteryear, when bronzed boys hung out of

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Best Places for Cheapskates to Meet People Who Aren’t Cheapskates.

Cross economic divides and magic can happen...

I’m a cheapskate. So are most of my friends. But sometimes, conversations about how crazy it is

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Filth and Frugality at Folsom Sunday 9/29

It’s hard to say why, but when it comes to queer civic celebrations, Folsom probably is at the top in the cash spent department. Not