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22 May 2018

How I Became a Sex Worker

By Rob Yaeger I remember the first time I saw a client. It was a bleak day in March 2010. It had never been my intention to be a sex worker. Yet there I was welcoming an entirely average-looking 50-something guy into a tenement apartment in the Flower District for

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15 May 2018

CONFESSIONS OF AN OMNISEXUAL

Whenever anyone googles me, the inevitable question I get is: “You say you are an omnisexual. What is that?” It’s a fair question and I don’t begrudge anyone who asks it. Put simply, omnisexual is like omnivore, except with fucking instead of food. 

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08 May 2018

What Dating Older Men Did To Me

I was told that I should feel bad for having a 35 year old boyfriend when I was 19. I was told by people who loved me, that I was being used for sex. When in actuality, the sex I had in that relationship made me feel more human and respected than most of my interactions with most people as a 19 year old woman.

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25 Apr 2018

Now There’s Coxxx Coin, the Cryptocurrency for Buying Porn

Casablanca. Citizen Kane. Big Dicked Honky Handjob. When it comes to entertainment there’s something out there for everyone. Conor Coxxx, the aforementioned honky, has been in the adult film industry since 2012. He’s a performer, an agent (Coxxx Models), a producer (Coxxx Productions) and now he’s launching a cryptocurrency for

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19 Feb 2018

Pagan Matchmaking Takes East Bay by Storm in Happy Forever

Spy Emerson: performance artist, salacious sex goddess and owner/purveyor of the infamous Hook-Up Truck, adorned the stage of Albany’s historic Ivy Room Monday, for an iterative performance of Happy Forever, her vaudevillian, burlesque-esque variety-and-game show of sin, surrealism and surprise. Happy Forever has taken numerous shapes and forms over its 20-year

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12 Feb 2018

How to Deal with Valentine’s Day When you are Polyamorous

I am pretty sure when Stu asked me to write an article about how people in polyamorous relationships handle Valentine’s Day he had visions of threesomes in his head. And while that is a totally valid way to celebrate, like most things in poly relationships this comes down to more

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12 Feb 2018

Nikki Darling Reveals How #MeToo Can Fail Sex Workers

Welcome to Brain-Throbs & Blow Jobs, a brand-new column that will be highlighting the great minds and perspectives of Bay Area sex workers through interviews and photo portraits. A few short years ago, adult film performer Stoya released two tweets that broke the porn industry’s silence about sexual violence and

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06 Oct 2017

When You Have to Live With An Ex After You Breakup

By Jonas Barnes  Here’s a little back story about your author and how I settled upon this metropolitan garbage heap known as New York City. See, some years ago, I met a woman and we fell in love in Portland, OR and had a great relationship and decided that our

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