Dear Candace, Sometimes I think the worst thing the Internet has done is made me hate all my friends. Is that normal? Is it really the Internet’s fault? I’m assuming here that your friend base doesn’t solely consist of KKK members who think BBQ is best with two different kinds

Dear Candace, Why are dudes who are into Asian women considered racist? How is it different than when someone prefers blondes? It’s not that big a deal. Let’s begin by noting that it always, always, sucks to be called out for your physical attributes alone, even in admiration. This is,

A Big Change to This Year’s Voter Guide We’ve been doing voter guides for a really long time. I’m pretty sure we put our first one out in like 2010 or something. And I know that thousands of you rely on our voter guides to help you make decision. But

Dear Candace, In today’s modern dating world, while we’re in the undertow of the next wave of feminism, is it still a bad idea to let the guy you’re dating know about the other guy you’re dating? The short answer: no. If the basis of feminism is simply that women

Dear Candace, What if I love living alone so much that I may never want to get married or other such domestic partnership? Here’s the short answer: that’s cool, dude. Marriage, domestic partnership, sexy roommates, whatever you want to call it…it’s not actually essential to human happiness, no matter what