Dear Candace, Why are dudes who are into Asian women considered racist? How is it different than when someone prefers blondes? It’s not that big a deal. Let’s begin by noting that it always, always, sucks to be called out for your physical attributes alone, even in admiration. This is,

This ride was made possible by GenZe, the electric scooters that help you see your city in a whole new way.   The East Bay is absolutely beautiful. There are rolling hills, gorgeous views, and giant trees reaching for the stars. I mean sure, West Oakland may look a little uh…industrial, and

I’ve got some awesome news! We received a grant from the Civic Joy Fund to put out a literary magazine celebrating SF and acting to counter the stupid “Doom Loop” narrative. It’s a gift to the people of San Francisco. And after months of working on this project it’s now available

Dear Candace, In today’s modern dating world, while we’re in the undertow of the next wave of feminism, is it still a bad idea to let the guy you’re dating know about the other guy you’re dating? The short answer: no. If the basis of feminism is simply that women

So…yoga’s pretty popular. Yoga can be really great for you. It can help you develop better flexibility and ease up some pains. It can help you feel calmer and give you an outlet for anxiety. It can help you make friends and meet a new community of people. What it

Dear Candace, What if I love living alone so much that I may never want to get married or other such domestic partnership? Here’s the short answer: that’s cool, dude. Marriage, domestic partnership, sexy roommates, whatever you want to call it…it’s not actually essential to human happiness, no matter what

This week in ‘Shameless Elitest’ news: Bonhams Auction House in Potrero Hill set up a kind of sprinkler system to rain down on homeless people who get too close to their building. Bonhams Auction House sells jewels & Ferrari’s to multi-millionaires globally, they took some of their profits and invested in an anti-homeless sprinkler system on their building in Potrero Hill.

OFF MENU IS SPONSORED BY EMPEROR NORTON’S BOOZELAND THE TENDERLOIN’S NEWEST HISTORIC DIVE.  HAPPY HOUR NOON – 7PM The world is changing. The Bay Area is changing. Our shops and studios and apartments and restaurants are changing. But there are some delicious dining options even in the Mission that are still here. Don’t blame

There are a million reasons why you should volunteer. But I know you, readers. I have seen your comments and followed your posts and also know you in real life. Therefore, I know what drives you and feeds the beast of your Millennial desires. I also keep hoping you understand